Important Love Advice You Really Shouldn't Miss!
"Love is blind only when your eyes are not open to see it"
Do you need real love advice? Are you tired of blind dating, online dating, wrong dating with the wrong guys? Do you want to find your real true love already?
I always get people asking me "Why haven't I found true love?"
Let me tell you something dear ladies, the journey of looking for love can be very exhausting if you don't know HOW to look for love.
I keep on getting letters saying the same thing:
| "I do blind dates. I do online dating, parties, bars, pubs, facebook, myspace etc… I date 3-4 guys a week and none of them end up being true love! What is wrong with me? I need love advice that works, can you help me?" |
Well first of all... before looking out out out (pubs, bars, etc.); it's first and most important love advice is to look IN IN IN. What love life do you really want? You need to know what you want, because if you don't know what you're looking for, you'll find yourself shooting arrows in every direction with no place to go. This is the first love advice step to getting closer: Find out what YOU really want (not what your mother wants, not what your friends want, not what anyone or anything other than what You want!).
To help you out, I've written a whole love advice article on writing your "Ideal Love Scene", this will help you focus on your true love desires. Once you've written your Ideal Love Scene, come back to this article and start writing your 'Love Diary'.
What is a 'Love Diary'?
A love diary is a very simple yet amazing technique that helps us concentrate for a long time on our desires and wants from a relationship.
A 'Diary' because you'll be writing in it every day, and 'Love' because hey, that's what we're here for! Don't worry, you don't have to be a professional writer to write in your Love Diary. It's best to buy a notebook that will become your Love Diary, choose a notebook that you feel comfortable with.
What should I write in the 'Love diary'?
Once you've chosen your notebook, open it to the first page, write the date on it, and give a try to writing your first love desire (a situation you desire and fantasize about with your ideal love partner). It can be anything; a cloudy morning together in bed, it can be a conversation you had in the street, it can be your whole honey moon! Anything you dream of having in your future love-life, anything you dream of experiencing with your man should be written in your love diary. In details!
My love advice to you is to write at least once a day in your Love Diary. You can put your Love Diary right by your bed and write in it the first thing you wake up in the morning or the last thing you do before going to sleep. You can write in it 3 times a day or 20 times a day, or as much as you feel you need. But try to write in it at least once a day, that's the only way it will start working.
What does the Love Diary do? Why will it get me closer to finding my true love?
You have to understand ladies, the more you DARE to open your desires, the more you are willing to open your heart and mind and be truthful about what you really want in your love life, the more you will be attracting it into your own lives. You really have the power to create an effect on your life.
When writing in your Love Diary, it's important to write in present tense. Why? because if you write all of your desired love scenes in a future tense, that's where it will stay! Now we don't want that to happen right?
Writing in the present tense helps make your love diary become your real life. When we write in the present tense we transmit to our mind that this relationship is already happening. We live this reality in our thoughts when we write it before it's happening and by feeling it and thinking about it as if it is really happening right now, we bring this reality closer to us and it starts to transform into our real life!
Sounds crazy? maybe... but this love advice works!
Even if it's really strange for you at first to write everything in present tense, don't let it stop you; it will really help in pulling your desired love life and partner into the Present (and not stay stuck in the Future). Think about a magnet. If you put a strong magnet in the corner of a big room and you return within a week you will find lots of metals attached to this magnet. This is exactly what we do with this Love Diary technique; we turn ourselves into magnets, only we aim to pull in our true love match.
Here are few love advice examples of different scenes that can be written in your Love Diary:
* "We wake up in the morning and it's a bit cold outside, I think it's the first rain this year. He convinces me to call work and ask for a day off. In the beginning I refuse but than he starts kissing me all over my body to convince me and I agree. Than we make love for an hour and then he hugs me in his arms for another hour. We fall asleep in this hug until 1PM!" * "We walk together in the street to see the new exhibition in the Guggenheim museum. I'm wearing dark blue jeans and a green sweater and he's wearing his mocha pants which I bought him last year and a pale blue shirt. I like him in light colors. Suddenly it starts raining so we stop at the nearest coffee shop we find and we drink hot chocolate together. The place is filled with lots of people however I find a tiny moment to look inside his eyes and say "I love you" for the first time. He smiles. I will never forget this smile." * "I have a big assignment to present tomorrow at work. It's late at night, something around 1:30 AM. I sit by my computer and work. He enters my room silently and puts a large jar of coffee and a cake he just baked on my table and kisses me good night." |
All of these love advice examples can be much longer and more elaborate, each scene can take up as many pages as you feel it needs. The more details the better!
The process of writing in your Love Diary specifies and clarifies for you what you are really looking for in a relationship in a very detailed way. Not just how he looks and how much money he has, but who is the man which will be the father of your children? What do you do together? What do you talk about? How does he act when your angry? How does he make you laugh? etc. You should write anything that pops up in your head and in your heart.
The best love advice in regards to writing in your Love Diary, is to Beware of your own censorship, don't listen to it! Allow yourself to write anything you wish for yourself even if it seems as if it can't happen, just write it down! Remember, it's mostly about daring to desire, if you dare to desire something, desire all of it, all of what you want of it, it will start pulling itself into your life like a magnet.
Take your Love Diary with you to every place you go, so even in the middle of the day if you have a thought, take out your love diary and write it down. Don't hold yourself back from writing!
Does it sound embarrassing to write your love desires? Well, it might seem that way in the beginning, you might feel slightly embarrassed while writing. Don't put any attention on it. Keep on writing. Within a week to 10 days these embarrassing feelings will turn into exciting feelings. You will fall in love with the man you write about.
So this Love Diary is kind of like "magic" love advice?
Well, no, there is no "magic" love advice; Persistence and Patience are needed to make this technology work. Usually it takes at least 10 to 12 weeks to see some change, but it's worth it, believe me! If nothing seems to happen after 10-12 weeks, keep on going, and remember, the more you give and put your mind and heart into this daily activity, the more it will be worth it.
Does it really work?
You bet! I've taken this love advice and done it myself and have given it to lots of people I've coached. This technology worked in 90% of the cases when it was used correctly. The more interesting thing is that these "imaginative scenes" that were written in the love diaries really happened later on in their real life (about 70% of my whole Love Diary really occurred later in my life!). It's really exciting to see how much this simple love advice technique just works! In addition – this technique is free to try. You don't have to buy anything in order to start doing it so you have nothing to lose, right?
Just look into yourself, into your true wishes. Learn to listen to your heart and mind's desires, learn to believe in your inner self.
My most important love advice is Believe in yourself. Believe in your desires... And believe me, your desires will start believing in you.
Your Coach,
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