Internet Dating Tips To Help You Emphasize Your Uniqueness
"These internet dating tips helped me write my online profile!"
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You don't have to be a brilliant writer in order to attract men to your profile (or weigh 90lb. and upload a picture of yourself in a tiny bikini!).
While writing your profile description, you may be tempted to write something like “I’m funny and smart with a good sense of humor.” This is simply a boring list of adjectives… the same adjectives that show up on thousands of other profiles. If you want your profile to really stand out, you need to describe yourself through specifics.
What states your success in online dating is placed within those little details that specify you! A good profile that gets lots of requests - is a profile that emphasizes your uniqueness in details. These details are the major key in finding the right love match.
Most of us, when writing our profiles, think we aren't interesting enough and unconsciously create an identity that 'men would love', that is 'normal', that is 'the image of the perfect woman'. When we try to please someone or something external of us when writing our online dating profile we are usually adjusting ourselves to the common denominator that surrounds us; in this way we lose our unique voice. We are blocking our own personality if we give someone with writing skills to write our profile, when we copy/paste parts from 'well written profiles' or when we quote other peoples' ideas of love.
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Why?
Because each one of us is unique in her own-special way... and a well written appealing profile is a profile that emphasizes the 'charm' and uniqueness of who you really are.
Think about it, there aren't two people who have the same fingerprint in the whole world, there aren't two people with the same exact smile in the whole history of humanity, and there aren't two people who are completely the same in their character (even not Siamese twins)... therefore, there aren’t two profiles that can be alike!
Writing a successful online dating profile starts with knowing that you are special. Let yourselves be who you are, don't try to impress, be 'good', 'polite', 'normal', 'feminine', etc.
If you like eating strawberry ice cream in the winter while watching cartoons - that's great! If you work as a shepherd, have 100 sheep and your flute is your best friend - that's unusually special! And if your dream is to be president, that's impressing!
You are who you are, and your true love will find it much more easier to find you among hundreds of profiles if you emphasize your own uniqueness in detail.
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Ask yourself these 10 questions
Here are 10 questions to help you translate your own charm and uniqueness into words. I advise you to take a pen and a paper and answer these 10 questions in detail:
1. What are the things that I like doing most?
2. What excites me?
3. What makes me laugh?
4. What can make me stay awake a whole night ?
5. What are my dreams?
6. What are the things I'm not willing to give up in my life?
7. What attracts me?
8. Which color describes me in the best way and why?
9. Which taste/kind of food/ song describes me in the best way?
10. Where do I go, and what do I do for fun?
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The trick is to answer these questions in the most personal and intimate way you can. Do it alone. Do not censor or criticize every second sentence you write. Do not write and erase every third word, even if you feel like you're writing 'silly things' that no one will be interested in, let them be written!
Stop bothering yourselves with the thoughts of what people will think about you, it's a waste of time. Release yourselves from all boundaries and rules of how things should be written and just let your hand write as if you have no control on it. Be free as if you're dancing in the middle of the desert where no one sees you! Even if your dream is to eat bananas while jumping a rope or to count birds in Antarctica or to live in a house made of mud and drink raspberry juice all day... it's all good! It's much more than 'good', it's AMAZING because it's you!
Allow yourselves to be 'stupid', 'not sophisticated', 'childish', 'not experienced', anything you are. And most important, try this exercise its great fun :-).
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So what's next?
If you did this exercise right, then start adding your uniqueness to the 'about me' section of your online profile and wait for a few days... it should make a big change.
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Good luck,
